http: rework connection timeouts to match hackney docs, enforce 1 second max TCP connection timeout

lib/pleroma/http/connection.ex

@@ -8,8 +8,8 @@ defmodule Pleroma.HTTP.Connection do
   """
 
   @hackney_options [
-    timeout: 10000,
-    recv_timeout: 20000,
+    connect_timeout: 1_000,
+    recv_timeout: 10_000,
     follow_redirect: true,
     pool: :federation
   ]

lib/pleroma/web/mastodon_api/mastodon_api_controller.ex

@@ -1452,7 +1452,6 @@ def suggestions(%{assigns: %{user: user}} = conn, _) do
                url,
                [],
                adapter: [
-                 timeout: timeout,
                  recv_timeout: timeout,
                  pool: :default
                ]

lib/pleroma/web/rel_me.ex

@@ -5,7 +5,6 @@
 defmodule Pleroma.Web.RelMe do
   @hackney_options [
     pool: :media,
-    timeout: 2_000,
     recv_timeout: 2_000,
     max_body: 2_000_000
   ]

lib/pleroma/web/rich_media/parser.ex

@@ -11,7 +11,6 @@ defmodule Pleroma.Web.RichMedia.Parser do
 
   @hackney_options [
     pool: :media,
-    timeout: 2_000,
     recv_timeout: 2_000,
     max_body: 2_000_000
   ]